on “black friday” (and then some)


November 25th, 2009

yes, my friends, once again i am advocating a BUY NOTHING CHRISTMAS and intend to spend black friday somewhere along the northern california coast between the pacific ocean and a grove of redwoods, not a shopping mall or wal-mart for miles.

IMNSHO, if you really want to celebrate CHRISTmas…in these hard economic times, put giving to the poor at the top of your list. food banks first. i started my giving early this year and last week sent a check to the Alameda County Community Food Bank. find a food bank near you.

if not buying any gifts seems too hardline for you, and/or, although i don’t empathize, i can understand, you LIKE shopping for your friends and family, and you want to express your love and admiration for them with gifts, i suggest buying handmade, local items. use ebay or etsy.com. visit a craft fair. or hey! talk to the people in your town. i bet some of them make things. people are crafty. now, these might not be the “hot gifts” everyone (especially children) has been hypnotized by television to want this year, but i thought it was the thought that counted? or maybe you’re one who believes that the way out of this recession is through consumer spending, and running out at 4AM to Macy’s on Black Friday is part of your patriotic duty….that leads me to another thought:

people keep saying that our Democracy runs on the Dollar, and lots has been written and said recently about our politicans being bought. if that’s true, then you have POWER. think more about where you send your dollars. there’s a lot of frustration lately about companies outsourcing work and manufacturing overseas while Americans are losing jobs. there’s something you can do about that: stop buying things from overseas, and from the companies that outsource. that means you might not get that huge new plasma screen TV, or your kids might not get the hottest Made in China toys for Christmas this year. but wouldn’t you rather have a job? Wal-Mart and other huge retailers take middle-class jobs away by killing small businesses and selling imported goods, yet everyone keeps giving them their money, usually for things they don’t need. why? long ago i pledged to stop buying anything with that MADE IN CHINA label unless i really, really needed it. sometimes, it’s unavoidable. but most of them time, you don’t need it. and america doesn’t need it either. america is losing the 21st century. as this great recent NYT Op-Ed points out, “Never cede a century to a country that censors Google.”

so this Christmas, support America. please give to the poor, and as for gifts, either Buy Nothing or Buy Local. i support both.

If you wish to be perfect, go and sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.” Matthew 19:21

…what He said.


2 Responses to “on “black friday” (and then some)”

  1. marty on November 25, 2009 2:31 pm

    Thank you for this note, Amy. I have a yearly dilemma with my wife’s family. They LOVE to buy us stuff. I like some stuff sometimes, but this holiday makes me physically nauseous when I am given tons of crap I don’t want/need/deserve. I’m wondering if I should have them donate all the money they’d otherwise spend on me to charity… I know they will be pretty saddened and offended if I did so, however. I also thought of requesting things that I could easily donate to the less fortunate. Anyway.. this is a subject deep to my heart, and It’s nice to hear of others around me who are taking action. I will certainly be doing something with my status of a “haves”, to the benefit of the rest this year.

  2. Kenda on November 29, 2009 8:18 am

    I asked my kids to write me out a list of things they wanted for Christmas this year. My little professor, Katie, handed me her list with a huge smile on her face, little hands folded in front of her and waited for me to read. I opened the carefully folded paper and there was one thing on her list….
    1) A good Christmas with my family

    I like to think this kid is going to change the world!! <3

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