the sanctity of love


November 13th, 2008

i know i said i wouldn’t post anymore about prop8, and i know everyone and their gay brother has also already posted this, but this is too good to not post for the few of you who might have missed it.

keith olbermann on the passing of prop8: it’s one of the most thoughtful, and, importantly, non-angry commentaries on the subject i’ve heard or read yet. he is so passionate about it he almost starts crying.

If you voted for this Proposition or support those who did or the sentiment they expressed, I have some questions, because, truly, I do not understand. Why does this matter to you? What is it to you? In a time of impermanence and fly-by-night relationships, these people over here want the same chance at permanence and happiness that is your option. They don’t want to deny you yours. They don’t want to take anything away from you. They want what you want—a chance to be a little less alone in the world.

…What is this, to you? Nobody is asking you to embrace their expression of love. But don’t you, as human beings, have to embrace… that love? The world is barren enough.

It is stacked against love, and against hope, and against those very few and precious emotions that enable us to go forward. Your marriage only stands a 50-50 chance of lasting, no matter how much you feel and how hard you work.

And here are people overjoyed at the prospect of just that chance, and that work, just for the hope of having that feeling. With so much hate in the world, with so much meaningless division, and people pitted against people for no good reason, this is what your religion tells you to do? With your experience of life and this world and all its sadnesses, this is what your conscience tells you to do?

With your knowledge that life, with endless vigor, seems to tilt the playing field on which we all live, in favor of unhappiness and hate… this is what your heart tells you to do? You want to sanctify marriage? You want to honor your God and the universal love you believe he represents? Then Spread happiness—this tiny, symbolic, semantical grain of happiness—share it with all those who seek it. Quote me anything from your religious leader or book of choice telling you to stand against this. And then tell me how you can believe both that statement and another statement, another one which reads only “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”

You are asked now, by your country, and perhaps by your creator, to stand on one side or another. You are asked now to stand, not on a question of politics, not on a question of religion, not on a question of gay or straight. You are asked now to stand, on a question of love. All you need do is stand, and let the tiny ember of love meet its own fate.

you can read the whole transcript here.


6 Responses to “the sanctity of love”

  1. reagan on November 13, 2008 1:25 pm

    wow. just wow. it brought tears to my eyes.

  2. alison Bank on November 13, 2008 2:56 pm

    wow. well spoken Amy.

  3. alison Bank on November 13, 2008 2:58 pm

    oops. i read it before i watched it.
    thanks for posting anyway. :)

  4. amy leblanc on November 13, 2008 3:01 pm

    as if i could write anything that clear and articulated….. ;)

  5. Kenda on November 14, 2008 6:24 am

    We need more hearts like his. I hadn’t seen this yet…THANK YOU.

  6. Prince Gomolvilas on November 14, 2008 12:42 pm

    He cries like a baby! I love it!

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